The phrase "to dole out" means to distribute or dispense something in small, measured amounts. It can be used both as a noun and a verb. When used as a noun, it refers to an act of giving out or distributing something, usually in small portions over time. As a verb, "to dole out" means to give out or dispense something gradually, often in small amounts. It can also imply that the distribution is not equal and may be based on certain criteria such as need or merit.